John: At the core of fighting to understand is asking one another a set of predesigned questions that are designed to get at people's thoughts and feelings
Even Healthy Couples Fight — the Difference Is How | Julie and John Gottman | TED · TED
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John: At the core of fighting to understand is asking one another a set of predesigned questions that are designed to get at people's thoughts and feelings
Even Healthy Couples Fight — the Difference Is How | Julie and John Gottman | TED · TED