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So the idea of the pre-mortem is to think ahead of time to the questions that you might be able to ask that will push the conversation forward.
Inside the mind of a master procrastinator — Tim Urban · TED
you cried in front of another person?" So when I show people these questions in these experiments, I can feel a sense of dread spreading over the room
The Simple Habit for a Happier Social Life | Nicholas Epley | TED · TED
I can feel a sense of dread spreading over the room when I put these questions up on the board, people start eyeing the exits --
The Simple Habit for a Happier Social Life | Nicholas Epley | TED · TED
We’ll build stuff, ask a ton of questions and even smash a few things along the way.
Mark Rober’s $60 Million Science Experiment | TED · TED
what we should do to slow it down or regulate it. And those are important questions, but they're actually downstream of a much deeper question,
Why Humans Should Merge with AI | D. Scott Phoenix | TED · TED
There are no prepared speeches in this court. Instead, 50 questions thrown at you in 30 minutes. I'm making hundreds of decisions in real time.
What Really Won the Trillion-Dollar Supreme Court Case | Neal Kumar Katyal | TED · TED
Our research here in Perth is leading the way in answering some of these complicated questions, and the early data is really promising,
Can Cannabis Help You Sleep? Here’s the Science | Jen Walsh | TED · TED
but not a god. Harvey asked the questions, we found the answer.
What Really Won the Trillion-Dollar Supreme Court Case | Neal Kumar Katyal | TED · TED
a psychologist and the head of the Ryerson University Sleep Lab, the basic questions you should ask yourself are: Do I feel reasonably well-rested during the day?
Do You Really Need 8 Hours of Sleep Every Night? | Body Stuff with Dr. Jen Gunter | TED · TED
always an object and never a subject? Whether AI can be conscious is one of the most consequential questions we face in our time.
Why AI Isn’t Going to Become Conscious | Anil Seth | TED · TED
their heart rates significantly and effectively are reduced. Now there’s plenty of unanswered questions still. Like, what might be the brain chemicals that are causing this amazing sensation?
The Brain Science (and Benefits) of ASMR | Craig Richard | TED · TED
to help people manage their stress and their sleeplessness? I don’t have the answer to those questions ... but I do know one thing.
The Brain Science (and Benefits) of ASMR | Craig Richard | TED · TED
We hear a lot these days about what AI might do to society, but for you, these questions aren't theoretical. I mean, they are a very real fight over truth.
What Kosovo Can Teach the World About Freedom | Vjosa Osmani Sadriu | TED · TED
In part, that's just because there weren't a lot of scientists in the field who were women, to ask questions about it. And it's also not a topic that women talk about publicly.
Why you should love gross science | Anna Rothschild
He won a Nobel Prize for his work. So go out there and pick up beetles and play in dirt and ask questions. And own your fascination with gross stuff and don't be ashamed of it,
Why you should love gross science | Anna Rothschild
What keeps you up at night? Pondering deep questions? Excitement about a big trip?
What causes insomnia? - Dan Kwartler
I'd like for this talk to be a conversation starter. I hope it'll persuade you to ask more questions. Predictions invite manipulation.
Beware the Power of Prediction | Carissa Véliz | TED · TED
Everybody is an expert in something. Number three: Use open-ended questions. In this case, take a cue from journalists.
Celeste Headlee: 10 ways to have a better conversation | TED · TED
In this case, take a cue from journalists. Start your questions with who, what, when, where, why or how. If you put in a complicated question, you're going to get a simple answer out.
Celeste Headlee: 10 ways to have a better conversation | TED · TED
So it's fascinating. Well, I want to dive into some of the member questions we're receiving because they're also really interesting.
The Secret to Making New Friends as an Adult | Marisa G. Franco | TED · TED
about the role friendships play in our lives. We have lots of questions that are coming in about, sort of, the steps to actually making friends.
The Secret to Making New Friends as an Adult | Marisa G. Franco | TED · TED
about, sort of, the steps to actually making friends. And I think before we get into some of those specific questions, I know you, in the talk, sort of shared --
The Secret to Making New Friends as an Adult | Marisa G. Franco | TED · TED
And when you desire, how is it different? These are some of the questions that are at the center of my exploration on the nature of erotic desire
The secret to desire in a long-term relationship | Esther Perel | TED · TED
if you think you might be floating, drifting into your own setback. In this exercise, I encourage you to ask yourself two questions. Number one, what are you energized by?
How to Turn Setbacks into Success | Amy Shoenthal | TED · TED
One is to ask expansive, open-ended questions, and the other is to answer questions expansively.
3 Simple Ways to Build Stronger Relationships at Work | Alyssa Birnbaum | TED · TED
open-ended questions, and the other is to answer questions expansively. Asking expansive, open-ended questions
3 Simple Ways to Build Stronger Relationships at Work | Alyssa Birnbaum | TED · TED
and the other is to answer questions expansively. Asking expansive, open-ended questions encourages the other person to open up
3 Simple Ways to Build Stronger Relationships at Work | Alyssa Birnbaum | TED · TED
Probe a little deeper. Answering questions expansively encourages you to open up and share more about yourself,
3 Simple Ways to Build Stronger Relationships at Work | Alyssa Birnbaum | TED · TED
It may take some time to uncover these commonalities, but asking questions and using the visual cues you have, even if it's just through their video screen, can help.
3 Simple Ways to Build Stronger Relationships at Work | Alyssa Birnbaum | TED · TED
if you're listening attentively, you're nodding, you're asking questions related to what they're asking, what they're talking about,
3 Simple Ways to Build Stronger Relationships at Work | Alyssa Birnbaum | TED · TED
complimenting you but clearly doesn't mean it, or asking you questions but couldn't care less about your answer,
3 Simple Ways to Build Stronger Relationships at Work | Alyssa Birnbaum | TED · TED
That could mean holding a few minutes in the beginning of meetings to chit chat or to ask questions to learn more. It could mean having virtual lunches with people,
3 Simple Ways to Build Stronger Relationships at Work | Alyssa Birnbaum | TED · TED
and they could get interdisciplinary medical care and they could get the answers to their questions so that they could achieve peak performance
What Women Athletes Need to Unlock Their Full Potential | Kate Ackerman | TED · TED
Candidates go into an interview. One of the questions is, "I'd like you to tell me about how you navigate ambiguity."
3 Steps to Better Connect With Your Fellow Humans | Amber Cabral | TED · TED
Now, these centenarians' stories along with the science that underpins them prompted me to ask myself some questions too, such as, when am I going to die and how can I put that day off?
The secret to living longer may be your social life | Susan Pinker
Like that, you know. The answer -- the short answer to all those questions is, "Yes." Yes, I'm afraid of all those things.
Your elusive creative genius | Elizabeth Gilbert
but knew the community. Our medical assistant asked some routine questions. She asked, "What's your chief complaint?"
What makes us get sick? Look upstream | Rishi Manchanda
with the same telltale sign of allergies. A few minutes later, in asking Veronica some questions, and examining her and listening to her,
What makes us get sick? Look upstream | Rishi Manchanda
But more importantly, it was that we put in place a system that allowed us to routinely ask questions to Veronica and hundreds more like her
What makes us get sick? Look upstream | Rishi Manchanda
Again, if AI, even if it generates completely plausible dialogue, answers questions just like we would expect, it may still be an imposter of sorts.
How to Get Inside the "Brain" of AI | Alona Fyshe | TED · TED
I constantly feel how my own language is being affected, and judging from the 40 percent of you who answered both of my questions, it’s beginning to change your language, too.
Are We Cooked? How Social Media Shapes Language | Adam Aleksic | TED · TED
Why is it designed the way it is? To make these questions concrete, I'd like to discuss just one
Can AI Match the Human Brain? | Surya Ganguli | TED · TED
So where climate realism is concerned, I have some questions. Is it realistic to ignore the one to two billion climate refugees
Why Climate Action Is Unstoppable — and “Climate Realism” Is a Myth | Al Gore | TED · TED
You painted a very vivid picture of the future of warfare and deterrence. I want to ask you a couple questions. I think one that's on a lot of people's minds is
The AI Arsenal That Could Stop World War III | Palmer Luckey | TED · TED
With the rise of AI, are we contending with fundamentally a new set of questions here? Because some advocate that we shouldn't build autonomous systems
The AI Arsenal That Could Stop World War III | Palmer Luckey | TED · TED
(Applause) Latif Nasser: We're doing rapid-fire questions, you ready? Roughly what percent of images online do you believe to be fake?
How to Spot Fake AI Photos | Hany Farid | TED · TED
74 percent said yes, and only nine percent said no. Time and time again, when we ask the public these questions, they show support for requirements around permission and payment,
How AI Models Steal Creative Work — and What to Do About It | Ed Newton-Rex | TED · TED
Beyond getting us to the right answers, a tool for thought helps us ask the right questions. Beyond automating known processes,
How to Stop AI from Killing Your Critical Thinking | Advait Sarkar | TED · TED
it was inconceivable to me that we would be asking these questions in my lifetime. But we are.
How to Stop AI from Killing Your Critical Thinking | Advait Sarkar | TED · TED
that I answer pretty much every day. Now, these are the questions. I have a few others I answer weekly, like contribution to society.
What Happened When I Started Measuring My Life Every Day | Chris Musser | TED · TED
And so for the past 18 months, I've essentially answered these questions every day. I do it at 9pm on my couch, on my phone,
What Happened When I Started Measuring My Life Every Day | Chris Musser | TED · TED
And Chloe asked her mom a lot of questions. Starting with "Why doesn't that woman have a home?"
How Acts of Kindness Sparked a Global Movement | Asha Curran | TED · TED
So the procedure is fairly simple: two strangers take turns asking each other 36 increasingly personal questions and then they stare into each other's eyes
Falling in love is the easy part | Mandy Len Catron
without speaking for four minutes. So here are a couple of sample questions. Number 12: If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability,
Falling in love is the easy part | Mandy Len Catron
how do you, like divvy up how much money goes to each one? These are like big questions. But every time throughout history
OpenAI’s Sam Altman Talks ChatGPT, AI Agents and Superintelligence — Live at TED2025
But I just wasn't prepared for the scope of the response. The 36 questions seem to have taken on a life of their own. In fact, the New York Times published a follow-up article
Falling in love is the easy part | Mandy Len Catron
If the answer was no, would it make the experience of doing these 36 questions any less worthwhile?
Falling in love is the easy part | Mandy Len Catron
any less worthwhile? Dr. Arthur Aron first wrote about these questions in this study here in 1997,
Falling in love is the easy part | Mandy Len Catron
the one that I tried last summer, that pairs the personal questions with four minutes of eye contact, was referenced in this article,
Falling in love is the easy part | Mandy Len Catron
when they wanted to know if we were still together. So the story that the media told about the 36 questions was that there might be a shortcut to falling in love.
Falling in love is the easy part | Mandy Len Catron
you admit to having a lot to lose, and it's true that these questions do provide a mechanism for getting to know someone quickly,
Falling in love is the easy part | Mandy Len Catron
So rather than that question, I would propose we ask some more difficult questions, questions like:
Falling in love is the easy part | Mandy Len Catron
I would propose we ask some more difficult questions, questions like: How do you decide who deserves your love
Falling in love is the easy part | Mandy Len Catron
how do you live with your partner's doubt? I don't necessarily know the answers to these questions, but I think they're an important start at having a more thoughtful conversation
Falling in love is the easy part | Mandy Len Catron
without knowing whether or not he will always choose me. I want it to be enough to have asked and answered 36 questions, and to have chosen to love someone so generous and kind and fun
Falling in love is the easy part | Mandy Len Catron
that we acted with precaution. I think a lot of your questions earlier would suggest at least some sympathy to the fact that we've operated that way.
OpenAI’s Sam Altman Talks ChatGPT, AI Agents and Superintelligence — Live at TED2025
John: At the core of fighting to understand is asking one another a set of predesigned questions that are designed to get at people's thoughts and feelings
Even Healthy Couples Fight — the Difference Is How | Julie and John Gottman | TED · TED
without feeling judged or attacked. Julie: There are six questions in all, and these questions unearth each person's values,
Even Healthy Couples Fight — the Difference Is How | Julie and John Gottman | TED · TED
Julie: There are six questions in all, and these questions unearth each person's values, feelings, background history
Even Healthy Couples Fight — the Difference Is How | Julie and John Gottman | TED · TED
and ideal dream regarding the issue. I'm going to give you an illustration using just two out of the six questions. So there was a couple who were really fighting
Even Healthy Couples Fight — the Difference Is How | Julie and John Gottman | TED · TED
Now when I arrive, I’m really impressed, because he’s so smart, he’s ambitious, and he's asking questions and interested in things that I'm interested in. So I'm really excited to work with him.
How to Live a Meaningful Life | Brian S. Lowery | TED · TED
They go into these tests, but they ask incredibly intrusive questions, incredibly intrusive, like,
A Filmmaker + a Therapist on People-Pleasing | TED Intersections · TED
as an alternative?" These are, like, incredibly harsh questions that no one wants to ask. And I thought the theory of all this
A Filmmaker + a Therapist on People-Pleasing | TED Intersections · TED
I think it's really important when you start to solve it, to ask questions around what's already being done within the system. Let's not try to reinvent the wheel, like you mentioned.
How Do You Turn Setbacks Into Motivation? A Doctor + A Trauma Specialist Answer | TED Intersections · TED
Let's see what already exists. So I started asking more questions. Physicians, researchers, pharmaceutical companies, government agencies,
How Do You Turn Setbacks Into Motivation? A Doctor + A Trauma Specialist Answer | TED Intersections · TED
then start asking about the system. But don't stop asking questions until you figure out as much as you can about the system.
How Do You Turn Setbacks Into Motivation? A Doctor + A Trauma Specialist Answer | TED Intersections · TED
and really making sure that we were listening. I think what you said about asking questions and I think asking beforehand,
How Do You Turn Setbacks Into Motivation? A Doctor + A Trauma Specialist Answer | TED Intersections · TED
In fact, I believe that's a question that is more likely to lead to divorce. But before we look at better questions, let's look at what's at stake.
Is Your Partner “The One?” Wrong Question | George Blair-West | TED · TED
Instead of asking "Are you the one," ask two questions of each of you. Do I accept my partner despite their shortcomings?
Is Your Partner “The One?” Wrong Question | George Blair-West | TED · TED
So, I'm going to integrate in some questions that we're getting from the members.
How to Raise Confident Kids in an Age of Anxiety | Lenore Skenazy | TED · TED
And we have so many other questions about different people within the community and how they
How to Raise Confident Kids in an Age of Anxiety | Lenore Skenazy | TED · TED
>> truly we didn't we didn't hit on all my questions. We didn't hit on all of the
How to Raise Confident Kids in an Age of Anxiety | Lenore Skenazy | TED · TED
We didn't hit on all of the member questions. Thank you to the
How to Raise Confident Kids in an Age of Anxiety | Lenore Skenazy | TED · TED
over multiple decades?" I'm a sex educator, which is why my friends ask me questions like this, and I am also a big nerd like my friends.
How couples can sustain a strong sexual connection for a lifetime | Emily Nagoski
Thank you, thank you, for the beauty of your daughter. OK, now I want to ask you a few questions. So you wrote that for us,
“Marigolds,” a Poem About Wonder | Safiya Sinclair | TED · TED
but I do have a question. And one of the questions that I have to ask is: When did we decide that every conversation must be transactional?
What Gets Lost When We Treat Conversations Like Transactions | Khaya Dlanga | TED · TED
i have two questions for you one whose shoulders do you stand on and
Amanda Gorman: Using your voice is a political choice | TED · TED
two what do you stand for these are two questions that i always begin my poetry workshops with students
Amanda Gorman: Using your voice is a political choice | TED · TED
benjamin button or something and i asked my students these two questions and then i share how i answer them which
Amanda Gorman: Using your voice is a political choice | TED · TED
the center on our most political questions about what it means to be a democracy
Amanda Gorman: Using your voice is a political choice | TED · TED
asking me is to not ask charged and challenging questions in my poetic work
Amanda Gorman: Using your voice is a political choice | TED · TED
of the most dangerous and the most daring questions that a nation or world might face what path
Amanda Gorman: Using your voice is a political choice | TED · TED
having the right answers it's about asking these right questions about what it means to be
Amanda Gorman: Using your voice is a political choice | TED · TED
Can you imagine your first meaningful relationship is with an AI? And so there's three questions I want you to ask. First one, can you still embrace the messiness of being human, OK?
The AI-Generated Intimacy Crisis | Bryony Cole | TED · TED
Where are we right now according to you? AWG: I mean, this is one of the biggest questions that we have as a society today.
3 Possible Futures for AI — Which Will We Choose? | Alvin W. Graylin | TED · TED
but through practicality, through the answering of thousands of practical questions that arise from the simple minutia of sharing everyday life.
My Year Living with a Robot | Emily Kate Genatowski | TED · TED
I have embarked upon a research project to uncover what all of these thousands of questions really are. I have spent the greater part of this past year
My Year Living with a Robot | Emily Kate Genatowski | TED · TED