How native speakers pronounce “rejected”

did the turn of events at Apple had not changed that one bit I'd been rejected but I was still in

Steve Jobs Stanford Commencement 2005 · Stanford

and I would die to avoid being in that situation again -- to get rejected in public again. That's one version.

What I Learned from 100 Days of Rejection | Jia Jiang | TED · TED

And basically the idea is for 30 days you go out and look for rejection, and every day get rejected at something, and then by the end, you desensitize yourself from the pain.

What I Learned from 100 Days of Rejection | Jia Jiang | TED · TED

I said, "You know what? I'm going to do this. And I'll feel myself getting rejected 100 days." And I came up with my own rejection ideas,

What I Learned from 100 Days of Rejection | Jia Jiang | TED · TED

But because I filmed myself -- so that night I was watching myself getting rejected, I just saw how scared I was.

What I Learned from 100 Days of Rejection | Jia Jiang | TED · TED

For example, I found if I just don't run, if I got rejected, I could actually turn a "no" into a "yes,"

What I Learned from 100 Days of Rejection | Jia Jiang | TED · TED

This is me -- you probably can't see, this is a bad picture. You know, sometimes you get rejected by lighting, you know? (Laughter)

What I Learned from 100 Days of Rejection | Jia Jiang | TED · TED

and I'm even building technology to help people overcome their fear of rejection. When you get rejected in life, when you are facing the next obstacle

What I Learned from 100 Days of Rejection | Jia Jiang | TED · TED

ultimately led me to meditation, which I had actually long rejected as ridiculous. I was raised by a pair of atheist scientists.

The Benefits of Not Being a Jerk to Yourself | Dan Harris | TED · TED

they underestimate how much the other person likes them. So this research really suggests that we're less likely to be rejected than we think.

The Secret to Making New Friends as an Adult | Marisa G. Franco | TED · TED

we make it more likely that we actually will be liked. Whereas other research finds that people that tend to assume that they're rejected, even when the circumstance is ambiguous,

The Secret to Making New Friends as an Adult | Marisa G. Franco | TED · TED

they actually become withdrawn and they reject people. And then they get rejected in return. So I'm thinking of these things in the hallway, you know,

The Secret to Making New Friends as an Adult | Marisa G. Franco | TED · TED

which indicates that we decide how much to invest in a relationship based on our view of how likely we are to get rejected. So when we show people "I like you," we're telling them,

The Secret to Making New Friends as an Adult | Marisa G. Franco | TED · TED

So when we show people "I like you," we're telling them, "Hey, you're not going to get rejected if you try to be friends with me." And that makes people really feel safe connecting with us, right?

The Secret to Making New Friends as an Adult | Marisa G. Franco | TED · TED

But if it's ambiguous and you're like, "I'm not really sure, we haven't talked for a while, but they haven't necessarily rejected me or they still are responsive when I reach out to them,"

The Secret to Making New Friends as an Adult | Marisa G. Franco | TED · TED

showing up for a friend, being held, being rejected, oh my gosh. Like, you know that moment at a party

The AI-Generated Intimacy Crisis | Bryony Cole | TED · TED